Dress Code (May Afternoon Celebration / Afternoon Chic)

Think polished and put-together, but think comfortable and relaxed for a spring daytime event. Dress nicely, but not formally.

Men: Dress pants or dark jeans with a button-down shirt or polo. A lightweight jacket or blazer is welcome. Loafers or clean dress sneakers are great. No ties needed.

Women: Dresses, skirts, jumpsuits, or nice separates that feel fresh and comfortable for daytime. Flats, heels, or simple sandals all work well.

Overall vibe: Neat, modern, and celebration-ready — dressed up, but not overdone.

If you’re unsure, choose something you’d wear to a nice daytime party or special family event.

Valet service will be available (at the Party Venue Only). As you enjoy the celebration, we ask that guests drink responsibly and prioritize safety.

The Bar Mitzvah celebration will feature a variety of beautifully curated food stations, allowing guests to choose from a range of flavors and styles. If you have specific allergies or dietary restrictions, please speak directly with the station attendants so they can help guide you and ensure your safety.

Due to guest capacity, invitations were extended to guests individually, as Cooper’s friends are very important to him. If your child is attending independently, they may take the bus transportation provided from the synagogue to the celebration venue.

At the conclusion of the event, arrangements will need to be made for a safe return home. Please let us know your plan in advance—whether your child will be picked up by a parent or guardian, travel home with a group, or be released to head home independently. Sharing this information helps us ensure everyone’s safety throughout the day.

Email: info@coopersmitzvah.com

We are so excited to welcome family and friends traveling to celebrate with us in Brooklyn! Below you’ll find helpful details to make your trip easy and enjoyable. If you have any questions at all, please don’t hesitate to reach out.

Where to Stay

The afternoon celebration will be held at 26 Bridge Event Space, located in DUMBO — one of Brooklyn’s most charming waterfront neighborhoods.

For convenience, we recommend staying in:

DUMBO / Brooklyn Heights – Closest to the venue and full of character.

Downtown Brooklyn – Modern hotels with easy access.

Lower Manhattan (SoHo / Financial District) – just across the river and a short ride away.

A few hotel suggestions:

New York Marriott at the Brooklyn Bridge, 333 Adams Street, Brooklyn, NY 11201, (718) 246-7000

Hilton Brooklyn New York, 140 Schermerhorn St, Brooklyn, NY 11201, (718) 834-8800

1 Hotel Brooklyn Bridge, 60 Furman Street, Brooklyn, NY 11201, (347) 696-2500

Spring weekends in NYC are popular, so we recommend booking early.

Getting to the Service

The Bar Mitzvah service will be held at:

Kane Street Synagogue
236 Kane Street, Brooklyn, NY
10:00am to 12:15pm

Kane Street Synagogue is located in the Carroll Gardens / Cobble Hill neighborhood of Brooklyn — approximately 10–15 minutes by car from DUMBO and the celebration venue.

Please plan to arrive promptly at 10:00am so we can begin the service together on time.

By Car: Street parking is available in the surrounding neighborhood, though weekend availability can vary. Please allow a few extra minutes if driving.

By Subway:  The F or G trains to Carroll Street Station are within a short walking distance.

We look forward to gathering as a community to celebrate this meaningful milestone.

Getting to the Celebration

The afternoon celebration will take place at:

26 Bridge Event Space
26 Bridge Street, Brooklyn, NY
2:00pm – 7:00pm

By Car: Street parking in DUMBO is extremely limited, especially on weekends. We will have valet parking however Public Transportation and Rideshare (Uber/Lyft) is strongly encouraged.

By Subway: The F train to York Street or the A/C trains to High Street are both just a short walk away.

Give yourself a few extra minutes for NYC traffic — we promise it will be well worth it once you arrive.

WHAT IS A BAR MITZVAH

Literal meaning: “Bar Mitzvah” is Hebrew for “son of the commandment”. When Cooper reached 13, he became responsible for observing the commandments (mitzvot) under Jewish law.

What changes on this day?

Religious duty: Cooper is now obligated participate fully in religious responsibilities in the synagogue.

Public responsibility: He often participates actively in the service, for example by reading from the Torah (the five books of Moses) and leading parts of the prayers.

Rite of passage: It marks a personal and spiritual milestone—acknowledging maturity, learning, and commitment to Jewish life and community.

What attendees will typically see?

Torah portion reading: Cooper will read a portion of the weekly Torah scroll from the bimah (the elevated platform in the sanctuary). This is a skill he has learned over years of studying with his teachers.

Haftarah reading: Cooper will also chant a related passage from the Prophets (the Haftarah) after the Torah reading.

Leading parts of the service: Cooper will lead prayers, bless the congregation, and/or recite specific blessings.

Giving a speech (derashah or dvar Torah): Cooper will share a short talk about what the Torah portion means to him and how the readings relate to life today.

Celebration: After the religious portion, we will host a celebration with family and friends.

How to support a respectful atmosphere?

Silence during readings: When the bar mitzvah student is reading or leading prayers, please remain attentive and refrain from talking.

About the speeches: If you’re invited to speak, keep comments warm, inclusive, and focused on the family’s joy and the meaning of the day.

Food and celebrations: It’s common to have refreshments or a meal after the service (Kiddush).

Quick glossary:

Bar Mitzvah: Son of the commandment; a Jewish boy’s coming-of-age ceremony at age 13.

Torah: The sacred scroll containing the first five books of the Hebrew Bible.

Haftarah: A reading from the Prophets portion of the Hebrew Bible, read after the Torah portion on certain services.

Bimah: The elevated platform in a synagogue where the Torah is read.

HOUSE RULES

Kippot and Tallitot

At Kane Street, those who identify as male are asked to wear a kippah (traditional head covering) at all times.

At Services

It is not customary to applaud during service, as it is not a performance, but rather a moment of blessing and holiness. People often call out "Yasher Ko'ah" which means "good job and congratulations" or literally, "strength to you." (Clapping along as part of participating in the music of the service, however, is warmly welcomed!).

Cell Phone and Electronics

On Shabbat, Kane Street is a sacred space for you and your guests, as well as the rest of the Congregation. We respect this space and the community norms within it by keeping phones off and out of sight, similarly with other electronics such as hand-held game consoles and readers. If someone needs to use their phone, we ask that they please exit the building to do so.

LIVE STREAMING

Cooper’s Bar Mitzvah will be streamed at www.kanestreet.org/live